Scattering cremation ashes: information & options
Fascinating facts & background information
Scattering ashes is a relatively recent phenomenon. In the '70s, only about 12% of ashes were taken away, with the rest staying at the crematorium. However, by 2005, that had risen to almost 60%.
Contrary to popular belief, cremated remains are not ashes as such, but rather tiny bone fragments. Typically, they will weigh in the region of 5 to 7lbs (2.3 to 3.2 kg) and are usually ready for collection one working day after the cremation.
As well as the more mainstream methods for dispersing ashes, a growing trend is emerging for converting cremated ashes into memorial glass mementos or unique pieces of jewellery. Using the ashes to create commemorative tattoos is also becoming an increasing popular method for the disposal of the ashes.
Practical information on scattering ashes
Initially, the ashes are usually placed in an inexpensive container, with an option to purchase a more expensive repository or keepsake urn. The cremation ashes are only given to the funeral director
or a nominated person on presentation of identification.
The recipient will also be given a Certificate of Cremation - a legal document including the name of the deceased and date and location of the cremation.
Issues to consider when dispersing ashes
No requirement exists in the 1930 Cremation Act that restricts the scattering of ashes on ordinary land or in rivers; however, it is technically illegal to place something on someone else’s land or in rivers, without the owner’s consent.
Furthermore, the mineral concentrations in cremated remains can affect soils and the Scottish Mountaineering Council, for example, has asked relatives to avoid spreading ashes on popular sites in the Scottish mountains.
Practical information & options for the dispersing of ashes
When scattering the ashes, casting can be performed by an individual or by a group, with attendees either taking turns to offer a partial scattering, or all scattering, simultaneously.
Please bear in mind, however, that spreading ashes should be avoided in the following situations:
less than half a mile upstream of any drinking water supply
in any water used for commercial, agricultural or recreational purposes
from a bridge over a river
around anglers' sites
in windy weather; and
Costs, if any, depend on the chosen method for scattering the ashes. No charge is made for this service at some sites mentioned below.
Ideas & options for scattering ashes
Options for dispersing or disposing of the ashes include:
in special gardens of remembrance.
in a place that holds significance or fond memories, such as a cherished haunt, e.g. in woodland, on a mountainside, hillside, coastal spot or harbour, or a place of recreation, e.g. a golf course, hunting grounds, a favourite walk, path, ski trail, etc
in the deceased's own garden (although the possibility of a future house move needs to be considered).
scattered at sea.
fireworks displays or into space.
trenching ashes in a shallow trench in the soil or in wet sand beside the incoming sea, (the trench can be dug in a variety of shapes and even in the form of the deceased's name).
raking ashes into the ground, (the most common practice in remembrance gardens).
over water: here a water-soluble urn can be used to disperse the ashes gradually back to the sea, avoiding the problems with ashes blowing back at the boat, (professionals with boats can be hired to conduct private water scatterings).
casting can be performed by an individual or as a group, with attendees either taking turns to offer a partial scattering, or simultaneously.
Scattering urns & keepsake cremation urns
A scattering urn that is specially designed to disperse the ashes can ease the task and add dignity to the service. Alternatively, many people choose the ashes, or at least a portion of the ashes in a beautifully designed keepsake urn. Apart from being used for storing ashes, these special urns can also be used for storing special keepsakes that belonged to the deceased.
Scattering Ashes: www.scattering-ashes.co.uk